fathering
"Just beyond the threshold of what we hold to be true is the reality that is seeking to reveal itself, can you listen?"
—Timothy Dukes
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Hold Her World
We are together now.
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As Long as We are Alive
We live in a world of choice.
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Find the Key
Learning When to Connect and When to Let Go.
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Include Your Child
IN EVERYTHING
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Risk Self-Disclosure
Be the Father You Are.
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Empower
Your Child to Advocate
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Time Spent With
Give Them Residence Within You.
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Father to Son
by Carl Sandburg
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Once You Become a Giver
You Will Never Be Alone
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Come Back to Me
Start over in every moment.
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Quality or Quantity
Empathic attunement allows us to fully engage.
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Pick Up the Baby
We must make a conscious effort to find happiness and peace.
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Death of a Thousand Cuts
Taking the risk of living in our bodies.
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The Patrix
It feels like a warm glow when it is right and easy and like a gutted fish must feel when it is raw and challenging.
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Cats in the Cradle
I'm gonna be like you, dad.
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Transitions
In transition, children experience most of their challenges.
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Man on a Bus
Just a man, riding on a bus, caring for a child.
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The Look, Feel and Sound of Love
Do your best, and if you don’t feel it is good enough, start over now.
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Raising a Whole Child
Seven Steps to Raising Your extraverted introvert or Your introverted extravert.
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What Do Children Want?
They want our attention, when they want it, not when we feel like being available.
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Hold Onto the Moment
How Many Times Can You Drop Your Child Before They Stop Bouncing?
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The Present Parent
Life that lives itself.
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Five Things
I wish someone had talked about this with me.
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Try It Your Way
Each moment presents a unique opportunity.
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Old Master Potter
He disappeared into his creation.
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Cross Country Trip
It was his journey.
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When You Are Gone.
I would like to have had the opportunity to teach you how to love me.
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Toast
He is not an empty feeling.
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The Cost
Of opportunity lost.
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Bonding
For a father it is day-to-day
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How We Are
Determines how they are.
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Fathering Journal 1
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Fathering Journal 2
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Fathering Journal 3
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When You are Present
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Strength
Your Ability to be Vulnerable.
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By the Fire
An ancient sort of ancestral knowing.
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A Moment's Passage
Return to the sanctuary
After only a few moments in Sanctuary, it is entirely possible that you carry with you gifts of unrealized feelings, thoughts, memories, or insights that will continue to reveal themselves in the coming days. May you remain open to the possibilities that await your arrival.